Where Does Love Go When It Goes?
Where Does Love Go When It Goes?
It does not vanish. That would violate conservation—
not of energy, not of mass, but of imprint.
As Shelley suggested, the cloud dissolves and is not lost,
it becomes weather elsewhere—
a redistribution of ache across atmosphere.
Auden was less patient: “Stop all the clocks,” he said,
as if time were a rude waiter refusing to close the check.
But clocks don’t stop. They redshift.
Love leaves like light from a receding galaxy—
not gone, just stretched thin,
its wavelength pulled toward the quieter end of the spectrum,
until what was once a bright declaration
arrives as background radiation,
a soft, persistent hiss in the instruments.
You can measure it, if you’re careful—
in the way you still set the table for two,
in the reflex to share a joke that now lands in vacuum,
in the ghost-limb itch of a hand no longer held.
There’s humor in it, if you’re unkind enough to look:
we build entire cosmologies around one unreliable star,
then act surprised when it evolves off the main sequence.
Still—nothing wasted.
Neurons that fired together once have already wired their quiet conspiracy.
The pathways remain, well-paved roads to a city no longer issuing permits.
So where does love go when it goes?
It goes diffuse.
It becomes field instead of particle,
less a thing you can point to than a condition you move through—
like gravity, like memory, like a melody from Sinatra
lingering in a room after the record lifts,
the last note hanging with unreasonable confidence
that someone, somewhere,
is still listening.
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For those over at The DVerse Poets Pub, I can tell you it is not with the lost socks or my car keys.
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©2026 Christopher Reilley I would love to know what you thought about this piece.
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I love that you’ve alluded to two of the poets in your poem, Chris, especially:
ReplyDelete‘…the cloud dissolves and is not lost,
it becomes weather elsewhere—
a redistribution of ache across atmosphere.’
Love stretched thin makes me think there must be an awful lot of it.
And you even refer to a melody from Sinatra. A fabulous ending.
A condition you move through...it is indeed that for some of us. Great poem.
ReplyDeleteYou can measure it, if you’re careful—
ReplyDeletein the way you still set the table for two,
in the reflex to share a joke that now lands in vacuum,
in the ghost-limb itch of a hand no longer held.
Yes!!!
I had to dust off my physics degree for the excellent metaphors in this one. "But clocks don’t stop. They redshift.
ReplyDeleteLove leaves like light from a receding galaxy—
not gone, just stretched thin,
its wavelength pulled toward the quieter end of the spectrum"
Pure brilliance! Excellently crafted, like Kim I loved your references to Shelley and Auben...very impressive poem
I enjoyed the atmospheric feel of this poem. Wonderfully stated.
ReplyDeleteLove leaves like light from a receding galaxy—
not gone, just stretched thin,
eric here. it does not diminish love the comparison to background radiation so much.
ReplyDeleteBravo! Nice one, Christopher
ReplyDeleteMuch love
A fresh mix of science, philosophy and emotion Chris. Nicely done 👏
ReplyDeleteOoh! Love your perspective on where love goes. Some excellent analogies.
ReplyDeleteThank you also for your lovely comment. That's exactly why I love your poems, they are so different from what I write.
I love the physics and the poetic allusions both, Chris.
ReplyDeleteSo many great lines but I especially like this: "The pathways remain, well-paved roads to a city no longer issuing permits."
ReplyDeleteAnd why wouldn't love obey its thermodynamic medium? Sure makes losing it intelligible in the "background radiation" of colder rooms, gathering elsewhere as Sinatra leans into the microphone.
ReplyDeletebrilliant, painful truth:
ReplyDelete"we build entire cosmologies around one unreliable star,"
"Love leaves like light from a receding galaxy—
ReplyDeletenot gone, just stretched thin,
its wavelength pulled toward the quieter end of the spectrum,
until what was once a bright declaration
arrives as background radiation,
a soft, persistent hiss in the instruments."
An amazing stanza, Chris!
Love this: "Love leaves like light from a receding galaxy—
ReplyDeletenot gone, just stretched thin," --